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The screwy compass

Have you noticed that fetishes and kinks are a lot like morals? Mine are fine but yours are not. I hate that. Especially among those of us who are kinky, we really should  be a lot more welcoming of other people’s desires. I mean, as long as they don’t force them on us, they should certainly be allowed their fetishes.

I have a fetish that I never knew I had – though I guess I should have figured it out. It hit me last summer when I was writing The Binds That Tie. That whole coming in the coffee cup and then drinking it did two things. At first I was squicked out – that lasted 2 seconds. And then I was turned on.

When a new fetish makes itself known, I guess our mind likes to work on it more. A character in a book I’ve got out in early release, Don’t Mess With His Pack, Blaise Wylde, has a fetish for his mate’s cum. I’m talking drinking it by the gallon.


Now, I know this is going to squick some people out. So I went back and forth on whether to tone it down a bit. But it all came down to the fact that it turned both Blaise and Hunter on and well, yeah me too. So I kept it in.

And yes, there are things in books that squick me out – rimming without a condom is one especially when it gets really descriptive (though I have more of a problem with it in contemporary romance. In paranormal my brain can  handle it better.) But I do recognize other people’s ability to enjoy it.

So tell me:

What squicks you out?

What squicks you out that you actually desire?

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Don't Mess With His Pack


Alpha Hunter Maison’s primary focus is to keep his wolf pack healthy and happy. But with humans encroaching, they need a way to shift without getting noticed. He knows the local feline pride has found a way to temper their inner animal and asks for their help. Finding a desire to submit to the gorgeous lion shifter is unsettling. Knowing he is his mate turns his world upside down.

Blaise Wylde has worked tirelessly for his pride his entire life. As owner and creator of Wylde KingDom, a BDSM club just for feline shifters, he knows the power that BDSM can wield for their inner animal. When Hunter asks him to help the Pack learn BDSM, he agrees, especially when his inner lion is instantly interested and Hunter turns out to be submissive to him.

Someone in the Pack is unhappy about their alpha being involved with ‘a cat’ and anger quickly escalates to attacks. As Blaise fights to protect his mate, Hunter must do the same, because while he’s trying to find his attacker, someone’s after Blaise and he may already be too late to stop him.

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