So let’s talk about oral sex

Yep, let’s talk about it. And no, I’m not talking in an erotic way. Let’s talk about the good, the bad, and the ‘oh, i shouldn’t have done that’.

Nobody is born with the innate ability to give good head. It just doesn’t happen – no matter how many fictional heros and heroines can deep throat on the first try. It doesn’t happen that way. At least not easily. And for the record? Deep throating is just a part of the pleasure. Don’t forget to use your tongue…

So, how do you give the ultimate blow job? And is there such a thing? I figure, no matter how good you are, you can always do better. Why do I think that? Have you ever done something that makes the guy holler out and grab your head because he never felt it before and OMG it was the best thing ever? And don’t you want to keep finding ways to surprise him like that? Seriously nothing better than making him lose a little bit of control due to my tongue or … well, we won’t got there.

And no, I’m not saying I’m a great cocksucker… though I hope to be considered so, one day. I absolutely love it. The scent, the taste, his sounds, the feeling of his dick in my hands & mouth… Seriously, the high is amazing.

I posted back in the fall Madam Blackrose’s Ten Rules for giving great Fellatio. What I would like to get are some comments from you guys telling me what you think. What makes a good blow job great? Hints? Tips? Ideas?

As annoying as the term is (and rather self explanatory) Cunnilingus is oral sex on a woman – if you didn’t know. I am of the opinion that there are a lot of people who do not have a clue about actually going down on a woman.

First off, just like with men, some areas might be more sensitive on some women than on others. But there are definitely a few you want to concentrate on. Her clitoris, her cunt, and the lips. Yep, the thing to do is to play with her a little actually PAYING attention to what gets her off. But also, part of it is trying new things out.

Before my first experience with receiving cunnilingus, I figured my clit would be where all the sensation would be. And to a point, I was right. Immediate sensation focused there, but strangely enough, sensation from my pussy was the most intense – it just had to grow and get there. The first ten minutes or so I was thinking, what the hell is he doing? The last few I wasn’t thinking at all.

And being tongue fucked until you have an out-of-control orgasm? Seriously mind-blowing.

How do you taste?
Here is where it gets touchy. Most people have no idea what they even taste like. So, I say taste yourself. Nothing wrong with it. And if you expect someone else to you should be willing to check it out first. Of course, what you taste like to you and what you taste like to someone else may differ,  but at least you have a basis to go from.

Now, how was it? Salty? Sweet? Metallic? Nasty? Tasteless? Could be any of the above, combinations or even something else.

*cough* Do you want to receive oral? Or do you have a partner who enjoys giving oral? Then take my advice – do what you can to make yourself taste better. While different things work for different people, here are a couple hints to get rid of the brine and bring in some sweetness.

Drink Pineapple juice. Yep, you heard me. Straight pineapple juice. A glass every day or, a couple hours before will make a HUGE difference in flavor. Pineapple juice is our friend.

What one girl on Fet called her Cumjuice: Every morning she made herself a smoothie with blueberries, pineapple juice, yogurt and a few other berries.

Eat less red meat. Red meat actually makes that liquid have a bit of a nasty taste/smell. By eating less red meat, especially the day you are planning on gettin’ some, your partner will probably find it a bit more pleasant.


Please join in and share your thoughts.

  • Guys – what do you want the givers to know about giving you a fantastic blow job? 
  • Girls, what suggestions do you have for someone who wants to go down on their girlfriend? 
  • And any more recipes, ideas, etc on making things taste better? Would love to have ’em!

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